#reverb10 – beautifully different

Prompt: Beautifully different. Think about what makes you different and what you do that lights people up. Reflect on all the things that make you different – you’ll find they’re what make you beautiful. (from Karen Walrond)

What a funny prompt this is. I find that I’m accidentally reading several other posts, and finally writing my own much later in the day. I didn’t realize I was doing this until Alex pointed out that she was attempting the opposite. And then I saw what fun the crowdsourcing angle can be. And then I stumbled upon this gem about how we are all tragically undifferent. At least that’s how I read it. But I did agree with one point – your own opinion on what makes you different is skewed and unnecessary.

i actually struggle with this thing all the damn time.

Originality doesn’t exist. Everything I’ve ever said, done, written or thought has already been discussed, executed, written about, contemplated. In a world where it’s cool to be different and hip to be uncool, where the hell does that leave those of us that have been uncool since it was uncool to be uncool? [wait, what? You heard me.]

so where does that leave you? or me? or anyone?

Leave differences. And similarities at the door. We have something in common that we bond over? Awesome. We are different and that makes us bond? Spectacular. You do you and I’ll do me and lets let that be good enough.

let the love in. that’s what’s beautiful here.

so what’s this?

#reverb10 is an annual event and online initiative to reflect on your year and manifest what’s next. The end of the year is an opportunity to reflect on what’s happened, and to send out reverberations for the year ahead. Get in on this.

  • http://sparkandfizz.blogspot.com Tizz

    Once again, I entirely 100% agree with Carwin.

    Becca– You rocked it. I feel like this was a make or break prompt–even some of the blogs I really liked reading let me down on this one. Your post was super refreshing.

  • http://www.chasenight.net Chase Night

    Excellent, Becca! I didn’t care for this prompt much more than Carwin did, but I like the way you handled it. :)

  • http://lessplease.net Carwin Young

    This is the kind of post I wish I had been reading all day. I too struggle with originality's deadness which is part of where my post/thoughts came from about this prompt today. If we're all caught up in being original, then we're all the same because we're trying to be original. It's pointless to focus on.

    “You do you and I'll do me and let's let that be good enough.”

    You nailed it.

  • http://thatloudgirl.com/ becca wikler

    Thank you SO much.

    I am personally grateful to have read your post before writing my own. It got me thinking even more seriously about something I struggle with (unnecessarily) with.

    So thank you for writing it. And for popping over here to read and comment. Truly.

  • http://twitter.com/SheLikesRuffles Katie C

    I definitely had a hard time with this prompt as well. I had to resort to asking my husband to respond for me…since I figured he would know what about me was different….

    Loved your response!

  • http://thatloudgirl.com/ becca wikler

    Thanks Tizz! And thank you for reading :)

  • http://thatloudgirl.com/ becca wikler

    Thank you Chase! Thanks so much for reading!

  • http://thatloudgirl.com/ becca wikler

    Thank you! :)

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