With that said, my two cents:

“if you know of a way to prevent it altogether, I’d love to know. ” Right now a pack a day is the method…not advised but then again the worst vice is… advice

“I'm aggressive and I know it, live a stressful life that I love and am only capable of saying what I mean to people.” ME TOO!

“Do you ever get enraged? Do you allow yourself to explode? How do you calm down? What then?” – Today I went into a blind rage due to my family literally turning their backs on me (culminated with a rude encounter in the a.m.) My typical reactions involve 'raising the bar' in terms of aggression and violence in the forms of harsh words and exaggerated expressions like door slamming etc… But today I followed through with a plan me and my best friend who is also my girlfriend worked out just a few days earlier. We stole it from a movie and its simple and effective! Ready for this…. I say,”Babe, whats the plan?” she says,”Shut the f*ck up”

AND IT WORKED! By following our simple game plan, a bad situation was NOT made worse!

“What do you do when people bring out the worst in you?”
I DESTROY them with kindness. Not to be cheesy but I do, sometimes in a cocky way but nonetheless. I used to battle with 'the old man' next door because he would get mad when I blew the smallest amount of snow on his driveway when I was clearing mine. So one night the plow came by and I heard he was sick so I shoveled the a$$holes big ole berm for him and then wrote 'your welcome dick' in the snow hahaha, we were kinda cool after that, …found out his name was Gary.

So yeah, your blog rocks LOUD girl